March 7, 2010

Could Your Business Use a Little "Umph"?

Over the weekend I had my first opportunity to see the band Umphrey's McGee. According to their website, Umphrey's McGee was "founded in 1997 in the shadows of the Golden Dome of Notre Dame in South Bend, Indiana. Umphrey's McGee soon made Chicago home base and set their sights on becoming one of the premier live acts in today's touring circuit. Over the course of the last ten years, the band has performed at festivals such as Bonnaroo and Lollapalooza, and continues to sell out shows in the nation's premier venues coast to coast."

I attended their sold out show at The Madison Theatre in Covington, Kentucky with a fraternity brother from The University of Florida and his wife. It was his 11th show, her 5th. I'm pretty sure that many in the overflow audience have made "attend Umphrey's McGee concert" a high priority on their "To Do" lists based on their familiarity with each song and the all important dance grooves.

As I enjoyed the show and the festival-like atmosphere, I started to think of all the great lessons that Realtors can learn from Umphrey's McGee.

Build a Following

The band has created a legion of supporters that loyally follow the band on their mini tour swings (the Covington show was the fourth stop of the week with other shows in Syracuse, Buffalo and Columbus) in much the same way that The Grateful Dead had their Deadheads.

Imagine if you had a loyal following of fans that supported your every move as a Realtor? They subscribed to your newsletters and blogs, they attended you Open Houses, they referred other people to you like my friend referred me to the band. It's gotta be cool when other people are singing your tune.

Screw the Status Quo

It seems that most stage shows these days come equipped with large viewing screens and a full blown choreography plan to amuse the paying customers. Not Umphrey's McGee. Just a very crowded stage complete with keyboards, two percussion sets and room for three guitarists. Sure they had awesome light displays and the necessary sound board equipment but there was no extra "stuff" in play just because that's what someone once said a concert should have.

How do you run your business? The way those around you run theirs? The way you've always done it because it's safe or simple? With over a million members of the National Association of Realtors, isn't now the time to open a big ol' can of creativity and be different?

Create a Community

Seth Godin talks about it in his incredible book Tribes and Umphrey's McGee has done just that. They've gathered people from all walks of life in various ages and built a loyal group of people who support the band and each other.

What are you doing in your local office, your company, your board and your larger community? Are you a visible member of the community where you work and live? Do you participate in charity events, school activities and church functions? Do you "lead by example" when it comes to doing the right thing?

Find Your Groove

Allow your groove to be just that...your groove. You shouldn't decide to dance based on whether you know the words or not. You should dance because you want to dance. Don't worry about what other people think of your dancing either. You'll be surprised at how many people want to dance as well if they can just get over "what others will think." Watch this video below to see what I mean by finding your groove. (Pay close attention to what happens after the third guy starts dancing)





Improvise When Needed

Umphrey's McGee has been labeled, fairly or unfairly, as a "Jam Band." This just means that sometimes they sing a song as it appears on one of their studio releases but usually they are using the original song as more of a guideline and then creating a blend of music, rhythm, melody and feeling. Some of their songs last minutes while others can go on for a while, oftentimes blending songs from one to the next.

If you're in real estate and you're not good at improvising, you might want to start updating that resume. It's not very often that a deal comes together without any snags, hold-ups or changes so you've got to be able to roll with those changes as they occur.

Leave Them Wanting More

As the band played their last note of the second set, no one left the packed floor because the whole room (band included) knew that there was still an encore to come. With anticipation and excitement the crowd buzzed in anticipation of what the band would play.


How can your service leave people wanting more? It should be your goal to accomplish all that your clients were expecting from the onset of your relationship but if you follow the four word rule of "under promise, over deliver" you're sure to leave your clients happy and satisfied that they received "truly remarkable service" and witnessed the best performance you were able to deliver.


If you're lucky, they do just what my friend did with me. They'll tell a friend about your performance and encourage you to "experience it for yourself."


Until next time...Build Relationships...Solve Problems...and Have Fun!

February 28, 2010

What a Difference .1 Can Make

Isn't it amazing how at one moment you're heading one way and then a second later, everything changes?

This isn't always a bad thing; in fact, many times that small change can make a huge difference. Perhaps a crappy day is instantly improved when the phone rings or on the golf course a bad shot bounces off a tree and lands on the green within gimme distance? I had one of those "big moments" last week when I was driving from Columbus to Cincinnati.

At one moment, I was under 100,000 miles in my car



and then...




just like that I was over 100,000 miles!


We all have personal milestones in our lives - birthdays, anniversaries, weight targets, income levels, etc. - and they all mean different things to each of us. For some reason watching your cars odometer roll over that magical 100K point makes you think of all the places you've been and what it took to get to that moment.

What's your next big milestone you'll be designating a "pay attention moment"? Will you be ready for it? Relieved? Re-energized?


Whenever it may be coming, just be sure you are taking care of the things that got you there - oil changes, training classes, healthy eating or whatever are the critical components to keeping your system running smoothly.

Whatever milestone you may be approaching, buckle up and enjoy the ride!

February 27, 2010

Everybody Needs an "Edge" at Some Point In Your Life

I once saw a bumper sticker that said:



"If you're not living life on the edge...
you're taking up too much damn room!"


Not a bad statement if you believe that you can always stand to put yourself out where the "status quo" doesn't hang around, where mediocrity won't go and where the gentle blend of risk and vision meet.

I got to spend a view days this past week at The Edgecliff, one of the Cincinnati area's luxury high rise buildings, this past week and I must say...it was really cool.

I was in town to deliver some high energy workshops for our associates and managers from Coldwell Banker West Shell and in the process of looking for some venues for the workshops, an opportunity was offered by two of our hard working associates from the Milford office who happen to represent properties at The Edgecliff.

Kelly Morse and Ellie Alexander have been the on-site sales team for the Edgecliff for the last few years and are always thinking of ways to bring attention to their wonderful property. Kelly and Ellie, along with Janet Davis, Director of Development and Strategic Planning for CBWS offered the building's Social Room for the workshops and it also came with a pretty sweet bonus. Or should I say "Suite Bonus"?

I was a guest of The Edgecliff and got to spend two nights in their Guest Suite, a room that is used when potential buyers want to take a "test drive" of high rise living. It offered all the amenities of a quality hotel except instead of a front desk employee, The Edgecliff had a Doorman/Concierge (great job Ron and Leonard). Instead of a cold, snow filled parking lot, I had private access underground parking. Instead of a small exercise room with a treadmill and a StairMaster, I had access to a full service workout facility with twelve machines and more. Instead of a cooler of drinks and a walk to the local fast foot joint, I had the wonderful service offered by Harry and Gay's crew at The View Restaurant, the new tenant at The Edgecliff that offers some wonderful ambience, cocktails and American cuisine.

It is safe to say the Kevin Cogan and his team at Jefferson Development Group have done a masterful job of transforming a tall apratment building into a consumate luxury high-rise lifestyle destination in The Queen City.

From what I understand from many of the building residents and employees I talked to at The View, Harry and Gay Stephens have enjoyed much success with their other establishment, Bella Luna, and The View is quickly becoming another destination dining spot. Whether the patrons are travelling from their homes in Greater Cincinnati or just travelling down the elevators from the 26 floors inside the building, they're sure to find something on the menu they'll enjoy. (May I suggest the Lamb Meatloaf?)

Ellie and Kelly were very excited to give me and some of the other workshop attendees a tour of the building, including a visit to the top floor penthouse offering views of the Ohio River, downtown Cincinnati, Eden Park, Mt. Adams and most of Walnut Hills.

I want to send a big Realtor's Toolbox "Thank You" out to Kelly, Ellie, Janet, Joe King and all those who attended our sessions at The Edgecliff. Also thanks to Peggy - my View bartender extraordinaire, Dave from Grand Rapids (the newest tenant of The View) for hanging out and "talkin' golf," the guys from the on-site, full service salon and all the rest of the staff and residents of The Edgecliff for making me feel very welcome in "your home."

The Suburban Cowboy?

I must say, I really enjoy my yard and neighborhood lifestyle grillin' and chillin' on the patio while throwing the ball or kicking the soccer ball with my kids, but spending a few days at The Edgecliff certainly makes me a bit envious of George and Louise Jefferson with their "deluxe apartment in the sky"

Enjoy the video below and until next time...Keep building relationships, solving problems and having fun!


February 21, 2010

Don't Wait for "the Push"

Which One Are You?

It's been said that there are three kinds of people:

  • Those that make things happen
  • Those that watch things happen
  • Those that say "what the hell just happened?"

If you're striving to be a successful salesperson, chances are you need to be in the first category. Here are 10 ways to increase your chances of "making things happen."

  • Find the answers necessary to make good choices
  • Work when others don't
  • Do what others won't
  • Go when others stay
  • Work late when others leave early
  • Take risks when others seek comfort
  • Seek to be in control the situations, not the people
  • Sometimes you'll need to zig and zag and other times be willing to walk the straight and narrow
  • Know when to hold 'em and know when to fold 'em
  • Stand out instead of blending in

The Push vs. Pull Dilemma

We all need to stop relying on others to push the information we seek to us. yes, of course there are situations where obstacles stand in your way and you need help, but seek to make "the push" the exception, not the rule.

Learn to go out and pull it off the shelves, from the web or from your files on your own. Please don't misunderstand me, I'm not talking about delegation of important tasks or responsibilities here. I am talking about basic tasks or pieces of information that are out there in the "public domain."

Once you understand that the time it took you to ask for someone else to get you what you needed, you probably could have found it yourself. In doing so, not only did you save your time and someone elses, you'll also know how to find it next time.

February 17, 2010

Ten Years Already?

Jot D. Carpenter
March 19, 1938 ~ February 17, 2000


(L to R) Riley, Sean, Jot (a.k.a. Dad or Pop), David and Kevin Carpenter


If your Dad is still alive, please call him and tell him you love him. If he's not, please think of him today and every day.


If your Mom is still alive, please call her and tell her you love her. If she's not, please think of her today and every day.


Brothers? Sisters? Children or Grandchildren? See above


Aunts? Uncles? Nieces and Nephews? Cousins and Friends? See above




Until next time...Build Relationships...Solve Problems...Have Fun